That is my goal and my resolution. I've already done the kind of resolution-y things I would always resolve to do at the new year and then not do. I see people I enjoy on the regular and I get regular exercise. Those are big ones. I made the doctor's appointments I've needed for years. I think I'm hitting the balance between working hard at my job and not too hard. I'm enjoying the company of my daughter and she is enjoying my company. I know 4 is hard for many kids, but 4 is treating LB great.
2015 will be a year of resolution. By 2016, I should be living in my own place with LB. I will be divorced. Hopefully I will still be running and writing. Hopefully I will be dating and I will feel like I have a good community.
Where this blog fits in I'm not quite sure. I'm writing very little here because I've been working on off-line writing projects that are more satisfying for me right now, and also because with everything I write here I need to think about what a family court judge would think. B and I are both committed to joint custody and co-parenting, but it would be stupid to pretend that I'm not parenting in public on this blog.
(As I write this LB is singing a song she made up about "LB and mommy and mama have family time," what a cuteapuss!)