What we're talking about:
- Is this how it ends? The USofA I mean. Nobody pays the bill so we slide away from the three branches, the Constitution, NOAA, GPS satellites, federal judges, taxes, highways.
- How far away from the ocean should you buy a house if you'd like to live in that house for say 20 year+ and maybe even do something as inconceivable as hand it on down to your child.
- SNAP was deposited on 1/20. It needs to last until 3/1 or maybe for the duration.
What are we teaching our WASP/C kids. I feel really lucky to live in a place where my kid interact with people of different cultures/races/ethnicities than her own every day. There are universal lessons of the be kind and do unto others as you would have them do unto you. In such a mixed place I've felt pushed to stress the skills you need when you are interacting with people who have different world views and different cultural practices.
Trying to do right by a white child as a white parent-I feel unmoored from culture which might lead me. For all the talk of white supremacy culture, as a parent I need something positive to offer my child. At a vigil for those murdered in the Pittsburgh synagogue, in a majority Jewish crowd, I was struck by the way that people were able to mourn together knowing the same prayers and the same songs. Go to any WASP/C protest and event and listen to people try to muddle through a song. What is there to offer a child. I push for "being chill"-that is accepting people as they are, not getting worked up about them doing things differently than you would, or looking different, or sounding different unless they are hurting another. Curiosity is good-tell me more, and I don't know anything about that will you share with me. Respect for what you don't understand.
A couple months ago, I attended a fundraiser at a bar, and as is customary around her the adults drank (and wrapped donated presents), and the kids ran wild, and we ate some pizza. The entertainment was a group of Algonquin drummers. Their music and singing filled the space, and the children all stopped and walked toward them, watching silently, a few dancing. Our kids recognize beauty and art, they respect the people and the world around when we let them, when we don't fill them with the fear and pride that pushes the rest of the world away.
Trying to do right by a white child as a white parent-I feel unmoored from culture which might lead me. For all the talk of white supremacy culture, as a parent I need something positive to offer my child. At a vigil for those murdered in the Pittsburgh synagogue, in a majority Jewish crowd, I was struck by the way that people were able to mourn together knowing the same prayers and the same songs. Go to any WASP/C protest and event and listen to people try to muddle through a song. What is there to offer a child. I push for "being chill"-that is accepting people as they are, not getting worked up about them doing things differently than you would, or looking different, or sounding different unless they are hurting another. Curiosity is good-tell me more, and I don't know anything about that will you share with me. Respect for what you don't understand.
A couple months ago, I attended a fundraiser at a bar, and as is customary around her the adults drank (and wrapped donated presents), and the kids ran wild, and we ate some pizza. The entertainment was a group of Algonquin drummers. Their music and singing filled the space, and the children all stopped and walked toward them, watching silently, a few dancing. Our kids recognize beauty and art, they respect the people and the world around when we let them, when we don't fill them with the fear and pride that pushes the rest of the world away.
